The Companies You Hate Might Need You Most
– Might Be the Ones That Need You Most
Published on by Gernot Sauerborn
A client of mine had a highly specialized profile. His experience was deep, his skills were sharp, and he knew exactly what kind of value he could bring to a company. Yet, after months of sending out applications for roles that matched about 60% of his expertise, the response was deafening silence. Rejection after rejection, or no reply at all.
He was doing everything "right," but the results weren't coming. The problem wasn't his qualifications. It was the map he was using to navigate his job search.
The usual, but boring advice:
apply to your dream companies
Conventional wisdom tells us to target companies we admire—those whose values align with ours, whose reputation is spotless, whose mission inspires us. And yes, that can work.
But what if we turned that logic on its head?
What if the companies with the most urgent need for change are precisely the ones you currently despise? The ones whose business models you find questionable, whose past incidents offend your values, whose culture you've written off as incompatible?
The invisible wall: "I cannot work there"
When I suggested to my client that he consider speculative applications — reaching out directly to department heads with a problem-solving pitch—he nodded along. But when we started listing potential targets, he stopped.
The companies I named were leaders in his field. They had resources, influence, and complex challenges. They were exactly the kind of organizations where his expertise could make a real difference.
His response was immediate and visceral: "No. Not there. I could never work for them."
These were companies with public scandals in their past. Companies whose values, he believed, stood in direct opposition to his own. Companies he had, for years, actively disliked.
"In a company like that, I cannot work."
"In a company like that, I am not allowed to work."
These weren't facts. They were prohibitions. And they were shrinking his world of opportunity.
A radical reframe: where is the need greatest?
Then I asked him a question that stopped him cold:
"Where is the need for someone like you most urgent?"
The companies with clean reputations, the ones everyone wants to work for—they already have their pick of candidates. They have teams of smart people. They may not even recognize they have a problem.
But the companies with a troubled past? The ones struggling to modernize? The ones whose business practices you find objectionable? They are full of people who think just like them. They lack internal voices like yours. They lack the perspective, the expertise, the values you could bring.
If you believe in change, if you believe your skills could make a difference—then the companies you hate most are precisely where you are needed most.
A speculative application to such a company could sound like this:
"I know your industry. I know the challenges you face. I also know your company's reputation in certain areas. Here's what I bring: a track record of solving exactly these kinds of problems—ethically, effectively, sustainably. If you're serious about change, let's talk."
This is not naive. This is not about "fixing" a company alone. It's about recognizing that meaningful work often happens not in comfortable places, but in places where tension exists. Where your skills are not just nice to have, but essential.
What are your "forbidden" territories?
We all carry internal maps marked with "no-go zones." They might be industries we've sworn off, companies with bad reputations, or organizations whose values we assume conflict with ours.
- "I'd never work in pharmaceuticals / consulting / big tech / oil and gas."
- "That company has a toxic culture—everyone knows that."
- "They stand for everything I oppose."
Some of these judgments are accurate. Some are outdated. Some are based on hearsay. But all of them function as borders on your career map—and you may be paying a high price to maintain them.
The price of staying pure
For my client, the price was becoming clear. By excluding entire companies from his mental map, he was paying in:
- Emotional cost: The frustration and self-doubt from constant rejection in the narrow field he had allowed himself.
- Financial cost: A prolonged job search, lost income, and mounting pressure.
- Social cost: The lost opportunity to connect with people inside those organizations—people who might share his concerns and welcome his perspective.
Once he saw the price, he could make a different choice. Not to abandon his values—but to question whether avoiding those companies entirely was the only way to honor them. Perhaps the greater impact, the more meaningful work, lay precisely in the places he had forbidden himself to enter.
Moving on With Systemic Solution Oriented Coaching
What are the beliefs and inner prohibition zones that quietly tell you which positions you are not allowed to apply for—and if you gave them names, where did you originally learn them, and what were they once trying to protect you from? What would it take to reclassify those zones, not by pretending they don't exist, but by asking: under what conditions might this old rule no longer be necessary, and how can I honor its original purpose while choosing a different path that still feels authentically mine?
How do you currently justify these limitations to yourself and to others—and what would happen if, for a moment, you stopped justifying and simply noticed: what is the price I am paying for staying within these boundaries, in terms of opportunities, growth, or even the sense of who I could become? What would need to shift for you to see that stepping beyond a prohibition zone is not a betrayal of who you are, but an expansion of it?
Systemic solution-focused coaching helps you identify the hidden beliefs that narrow your field of action and gently transform them without losing your sense of authenticity. It supports you in recognizing the costs of staying confined, and in experimenting with new ways of thinking and acting—so that you can pursue positions that once felt off-limits, not by denying your inner rules, but by consciously choosing which ones still serve you and which you are ready to leave behind.
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My insights are grounded in my daily work with international professionals and executives navigating the job market and workplace culture in German-speaking countries. As an experienced manager, management consultant, systemic coach, and business-oriented German language teacher, I combine a practical understanding of business expectations with a deep appreciation of the challenges of working across cultures. Having lived and worked internationally, I understand how to make professional experience, individual strengths, and personal identity visible in a new professional environment.
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